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The effect on children when both parents are employed

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The Effect on Children When Both Parents Are Employed

2006

By the end of the XX century escalating economical problems and mutative social tendencies resulted in almost role of a woman as a housekeeper and a full-time child watcher . Nowadays overwhelming majority of families can not afford single income to cover all the needs . Therefore both parents have to work in to provide their children with everything necessary for normal development and progress

Undoubtedly , such social transformation of female role in the family brought to definite changes in family lifestyle and [banner_entry_middle]

, especially , had a great influence on children of full-time employed parents . It is possible to say that the effects of the situation with both working parents on children can be classified as positive and negative ones Such conclusion can come into mind of a researcher after interviewing little children or addressing to childhood memories of grown-ups

Negative outcomes are , first of all , lack of communication of parents with children . When mom and dad are full-time working , kids receive considerably less parental time , attention and guidance . In addition they need to get used to someone , who is providing them with day care (a babysitter , a teacher , etc , when parents are out , or to being alone at home . These things can affect psychological condition of children and result in a sort of mental disturbance or dis

When I was 3 , my mother decided to continue working . She did not want to place me to a child day care center , so I was sent to my grandma ‘s . It ‘s been very hard for me to get along with the old woman , who had rather tough temper . Besides , I was strongly to my mom and was missing her desperately , which somehow affected my understanding of the world around me . I think it would be better not to send me away and take care of me at least in work-free hours

At the same time , being always next to child can result in some slow-downs , deformations and other problems in proper development of a child . Non-working mothers have to beware giving too much attention to their children and must encourage their kids to be independent fearless , self-organized , determined , strong-minded , etc

My school friend Kelly used to tell me that , having spent all the childhood next to her not working mom , she had developed strong attachment to her mother . In her family mom was always next the daughter and demonstrated incredible care . Later on , it caused some difficulties for Kelly to learn how to cope with difficulties of life . For example she did not want to go to school , used to be extremely afraid of strangers and always cried

Also , when one parent is full-time employed and the other is at home dealing with children , parents can have different images in the eyes of their kids . The one who punishes and sermonizes can become a bad parent , and the one who has no time for this is a good parent Little Jane… [banner_entry_footer]

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